Friday, 1 November 2013

Questions or Answers? - Reflections on Parashat Toldot

Toldot seems to be my parasha this year, in addition to speaking at CSAIR tonight and tomorrow afternoon, I also have a dvar torah published for the Assembly of Masorti Synagogues in the UK.

For now it's here but since I expect that link to change I have included the text after the jump.




What is the meaning of life? Does God exist? Why do bad things happen to good people? What happens after we die?

These are just a few of the questions that resound through the ages, demanding to be answered again and again in every generation, refusing to go away. When it comes to spiritual and religious matters, we have a lot more famous questions than we have famous answers but which is better?
In this week’s parasha of Toldot, Rebecca has her own question. She feels the twins growing inside her womb and cries out from a place of deep pain and confusion. She had been childless for so long, and now that she is pregnant it isn’t going how she expected. What does Rebecca do? In Genesis 25:22 she goes ‘lidrosh ha’Elohim’, to search for, or to ask God.

What exactly is it that she is doing?

Rashi, the classic 11th century commentator, explains that she went to the Beit Midrash, the house of study, of Shem (son of Noah), hoping that Shem would tell her what would happen in the future. The rabbis calculated the ages of the different characters in the book of Genesis and, realising that according to the numbers given Shem should still be alive at this time, imagined Shem leading a house of study and teaching Torah to the patriarchs. As a prophet of God, Shem would then be the obvious person for Rebecca to reach out to in her search for answers.

For Rashi, Rebecca’s journey is answer focussed. She is trying to find out the hidden future, the secrets of prophecy that Shem possesses that will reassure her about the present.

But Ramban, writing in the 13th century, disagrees.

He argues that lidrosh haElohim means that Rebecca went to pray to God

While for Rashi, Rebecca went to get answers, for Ramban, Rebecca went to express her question - to give voice to her pain, to reach out to God and express her deepest thoughts in the form of her doubts.
In the search for God, Rashi stresses the importance of answers, Ramban prefers a powerful question.
This disagreement between Rashi and Ramban is at the heart of what it means to be a religious Jew. We ask the same questions over and over - why are we here? What does it mean? And in every generation we explore the answers of our ancestors, and try to find in them answers that work for us today.

Notice also that they each prioritise a different religious activity. The pursuit of answers is the domain of the Beit Midrash, the study hall, where we consult with religious leaders and our authoritative texts. But the expression of questions is located in prayer, in the Beit Haknesset, the synagogue, when each of us is surrounded by community but alone with our thoughts.

As Rabbi Louis Finkelstein said, “When I pray I speak to God; When I study Torah God speaks to Me”.

In the balance between the questions and the answers, the Beit Midrash and the Beit Hakneset, perhaps we too can speak with God.

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